It seems like such a long time since I needed to sit down and pour out the ramblings from inside my brain. There has been something brewing ever since I became single and that is the social norm of inequality between parents. A few weeks ago I asked N what days he would like toContinue reading “Today I Am…..Tackling Inequality”
When talking to a friend last week he made a comment that I was currently in limbo (he also called it dithering but I prefer limbo because it doesn’t make me sound quite as old 😂). I’d not really realised that I was, but I’m waiting: waiting to hear about the divorce (more on thatContinue reading “Today I Am…. Waiting”
For the past 12 months my eldest (E) who is now 11 years old has been having a really tough time. I put it down to the Covid restrictions, no regular routine, home schooling and me and her Dad getting a divorce. Over the past 2 years I’ve watched my happy, wild at heart childContinue reading “Today I Am…. In Influencer Hell”
Today I have had the hangover from hell. One of the ones where you cannot think straight or make your body function correctly. If I had blogged this morning I doubt it would have made much sense 😬. I’ve spent most of the day in bed. I’m annoyed at myself because it is my onlyContinue reading “Today I Am…. Hungover”
I didn’t post last Sunday because when I woke up my boiler was leaking and I needed to be in clean up mode! I’m still waiting for it to be fixed by my landlord 🙄 so I’m still catching water in buckets for now. At least I still have hot water and heating it couldContinue reading “Today I Am…. Angry”
I don’t know if it’s due to me now being on annual leave from work or if it’s because we are coming to the end of a really shitty year. I’ve spent my last few days evaluating 2020. This time last year I was dreading Christmas, I’d decided that I was going to leave NContinue reading “Today I Am…. Evaluating”
I think first, I should update everyone as to how the meeting went with my ex’s new partner. I REALLY liked her. In fact I think I might like her more than I like N at this moment in time 🤣 but that isn’t particularly hard. Her and N are moving house soon so thatContinue reading “Today I Am…. A parent”
This week has been extremely interesting for multiple reasons some good some bad. J (my youngest) had to have a Covid test on Friday evening due to a new and persistent cough. I had no idea that in the UK parents have to administer the test to children under 11. It wasn’t the most pleasantContinue reading “Today I Am…. Me”
I opened my laptop this morning fully intending to blog about something different entirely, I’m unsure and worried about a whole matter of things today. I’ve come to the conclusion that my uncertainty is because there are a number of things at the moment that I am completely avoiding. They don’t keep me awake atContinue reading “Today I Am…. Not Ready”
It’s been an exciting week for me 👍. The divorce which seems to have moved at the pace of a snail for months is now picking up momentum. I’m nearly in the home straight. On Thursday, N had to provide his assets and liabilities figures which was interesting for me to sneak a peak at-Continue reading “Today I Am…. Free (well nearly)”
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